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My Love Affair With Porn

‘I have a confession to make. Come closer, I want to whisper it in your ear. Close enough? Good. Listen up.

I’m a woman. And I like porn.

Shock, horror and that? No, I think not. I’ll be the first woman to tell you that women like porn too. In fact, I strive to get this message out there. Long before I started blogging about my sexual journey, I started watching porn.

The early years are vague. I remember various parts of Emmanuelle films and assorted soft core goodness being shown on the television. And I remember watching them, and feeling the first tingles of arousal… well, arouse me.’

This is an excerpt from our latest Bedhead Grafitti column, found exclusively at